The
funeral home is located in the center of the following photo. It can hardly be seen because it is obscured
by trees and flags. The three cop cars
are there because our friends from Westboro were there, though we didn’t know
it when I took this picture. The camera
view down
We
know that spot because the police used their laser range finder to locate
it. The Westboro-inspired
The
location thus established, the PGR leadership turned their attention to
tactical flag placement.
Terry,
Cowboy and Top discussed the matter.
They
confirmed the sight-lines.
Then
Cowboy and Top left to get the big flag and more regular flags.
Terry
(on the right in the photo below) is standing at the end of a chain-link fence
that extends all the way to I-74. He is
placing rebar stakes in the ground for the flags that will soon arrive. Other PGRiders approach with other flags.
Then,
to the surprise of all of us, a police officer escorts two of the protestors
around the end of the chain-link fence.
When Terry looks up, he realizes who they are but he doesn’t say a word.
Nor
did they dare say a word. They know they
are well within the 300 feet. They know
the trailing cop would be just as happy arresting them as escorting them. They know it serves their interest to be
victimized by “PGR thugs” – as they call us.
But
what of the six PGRiders who came only to show respect for a fallen hero and
find this opportunity suddenly available?
These two approaching Westboro people say the most vile things to the
grieving family at a time when they are most vulnerable. There were so many things that could have
been said to them as they passed. After
all, they are great trumpeters of First Amendment speech protections. At the very least, couldn’t someone spit on
the ground in front of them?
We
simply held our flags and waited for them to pass. It was a truly wonderful moment.
These
two Westboro people who hide behind the First Amendment to inflict cruel injury
were met with utter civility.
We
held our tongues as we held our ground.
We proved that we are better than they are.
You
can see the relief in their faces. They
were glad to find that we are not as cruel as they are.
I’m guessing,
but I think they are Fred, Jr. (eldest son of Pastor Fred Phelps) and his wife.
They
joined two other men and another woman at their van. No children this time. They are 440 miles from home.
Two
of them noticed me photographing them and probably wondered why I was interested
since they had no signs out.
As
they say, “Guns don’t kill people.
People do.” The sign is not
cruel. It’s the person holding the sign
who is cruel.
They
re-parked their van on the other side of I-74, picked-up their folio of signs
and hiked around the far end of that chain-link fence.
Even
though no one at the funeral home could see them, they unpacked their signs.
After
all, it was 880 miles for the round trip.
They
got down to business.
Fred
Phelps, Jr. is a defeated person.
He had happiness and rejected it.
Nothing
can make them happy. They are addicted
to hate.
We set
up a 4X6 shield on poles so that no one would have to hold it.
Their
theory is this: God is punishing
So
its either political speech or religious speech – protected speech either way.
Lovely
people. They look so normal. Why don’t they understand that their behavior
doesn’t have to be against the law to be against common decency?
As
usual, they broadcast their hateful messages at the ramps of the interstate for
only 20 minutes, just before the service began and as PGRiders were arriving.
Leviticus 26 is
red meat to the folks from Westboro Baptist Church.
Doug
Askren told me that his church changed its name to remove to word “Baptist”
from it.
They
have changed the names of churches.
They
have changed the laws of states.
But
we blocked their hatred this day.
The
came to deliver a message.
If
you want to send them a message, these
are their home addresses.
Our
flags were there for the funeral while a nearby permanent sign confronts the
Westboro people with the text:
If you can read this, thank a teacher.
If you are reading in English, thank a soldier.
Rob
Baker of
He
and his girlfriend brought two signs.
…seems
like a good guy.
back to the Paul Smith mission