I was the second person to arrive at the cemetery and
parked my bike behind the first one. We introduced ourselves and he asked me to
confirm my name. I pointed to the grave marker next to our bikes. “Donald Russ,
just like that” indicating the place where my father was buried 50 years ago.
The next to arrive was a younger fellow, tall and
thin. He was surprised to see us and was concerned that he might be late. After
we established that instead we were early, he became at ease. We asked who he
was.
“I’m the gravedigger.”
The Ride Captain was Rick Lomax who goes by “Madmax.”
A lot of the guys have handles like that, but I knew at once that “gravedigger”
was not a handle. Perhaps a euphemism? Was he a representative from the cemetery
or the funeral home? Even still, it seemed a dark choice.
And then it made sense. He was the grave digger.
It seems Peter had been cremated two months earlier
and they dig the small hole by hand only just before interments. Peter’s grave
digger was entirely deliberate: He knew exactly where to dig, how wide to dig
and how deep to dig. He was not hurried – he knew when the work had to be done
and he knew how long it would take him.
Joe arrived. He was dressed in a suit and was wearing
a 24th ID cap. Joe met Peter in the army and they had been friend all their
lives. Joe’s wife died two years ago and was buried next to Peter’s location.
Joe had placed a stone bench nearby that would serve visitors to both families.
The grave digger labored in front of that bench.
He removed a perfect square of grass and then worked
on the shaft, placing the soil in his wheel barrow. He also brought a plywood
plate that was covered with a grass-colored carpet. When he finished, he placed
the plate on his finished hole and his tools on his wheel barrow. Then he and
his tools and his load of soil disappeared.
Peter’s widow arrived and we
formed a semi-circle around the carpeted plate, facing the bench. Joe seated her
on the bench. The RC called “Present arms!” Two of Peter’s children were also
present and one of them carried a simple urn past her mother to the carpeted
plate. “Order arms!”
So there we were. Ten Patriot Guard Riders facing
east; Peter’s widow facing west; Peter between us.
Then she rose and spoke to us most graciously. She
began by noting that the violent storms of the previous day had yielded to a
beautiful new day. And, of course, that is just what the Greatest Generation
experienced. From Casablanca to el Alamein, from the Solomons to Okinawa and
from London to Berlin, they pushed through the storm. They saved the world.
The cemetery was full of green grass, green bushes and
green trees only because of earlier storms. And then she sat on the bench again.
The RC went to her and presented her with a folded
flag. He said a few quiet words to her and retreated. The rest of the ceremony
had taken place two months earlier. It was time for us to withdraw. Because my
place was at the end of our line, the RC had told me to be the first to approach
Peter, salute and march past him, away from the grave. I did and the others, one
by one, did too.
For half a century, since 1964,
my father, Korean era First Lieutenant, Medical Corps, has laid in this cemetery
next to a tree, twenty feet from Peter’s new address. He died 41 years before
the PGR was formed in Kansas so there were no PGRiders at his interment.
There were today. Before our small group of patriots
would stand in honor of Peter Cortopassi, they posed just beyond the grave of
Donald Russ.
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